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Multi-Generational Housing: Living with Family

Not every carriage home is built to be rented out. Many are built so a parent, an adult child, or both, can have their own front door on the same property.

Written by Serge, Founder, Kelowna Carriage Homes

A different design brief than a rental unit

A carriage home built for family is designed around one household staying for years, not a rotating tenant staying for months. That usually means a full kitchen and independent laundry regardless of size, more storage than a rental unit needs, and a layout planned around the specific people who will live there rather than the broadest possible renter pool.

The zoning and size limits are the same either way: Kelowna caps a carriage house at 90 m² (about 970 sq ft), one per lot, with one added parking stall required, whether the person living there pays rent or not.

Designing for aging in place

A single-storey plan, covered in more detail in the design ideas guide, avoids stairs entirely, which matters more here than in a rental unit built for maximum income. Wider doorways, a curbless shower, and lever-style door handles cost little to plan for at the design stage and a great deal more to retrofit later.

Proximity to the main house is worth designing for directly: a covered or short walkway between the two structures, sightlines between them, and enough separation that both households still have privacy. These are decisions made once, at the design stage, not adjustments made after move-in.

Zoning still allows it, and does not require it to be rented

Nothing in the bylaw requires a carriage house or secondary suite to be rented to be legal; using it for family is a legitimate, common reason to build one. The permits & zoning process is identical either way; only your own use of the finished space changes.

Some owners build with a family member in mind for now, and plan to convert the unit to a rental later once circumstances change. The permit and construction process does not need to know which one it will be; the design decisions above, though, are worth making with the honest long-term plan in mind rather than the more flexible one.

Financing looks different when it is not a rental

The CMHC-insured refinance option, up to 90% of your principal residence’s value since January 15, 2025, is built around a suite that generates rental income under a minimum 90-day tenancy; a lender may treat it differently, or not qualify it the same way, if the unit will house family rent-free. Cash, a HELOC, roughly prime plus 0.5%, about 4.95% as of September 2026, or a standard mortgage are the more straightforward routes when the unit is not meant to produce income. Full detail is on the financing & incentives page.

Even without rental income, a legal, permitted carriage home still adds resale value and legal floor area to your property; it also gives you the option to rent it out in the future without further permitting.

What this means for cost

Cost is not meaningfully different for a family-use unit versus a rental unit of the same size; the $350,000 to $550,000 turnkey range applies either way, and the accessibility features discussed above add a modest amount rather than a different order of magnitude. See the cost breakdown for what actually moves the number.

Two common scenarios

An aging parent moving in usually calls for single-storey living, a main-floor bedroom and bathroom if any stairs exist at all, and proximity to the main house for regular contact, sometimes with a connecting walkway. Cost and design decisions lean toward accessibility over rental-optimized square footage.

An adult child returning home, or staying while saving for a first property, usually wants more independence than proximity: an entrance well separated from the main house, a full kitchen and laundry, and a layout closer to what a long-term tenant would want, even though no tenant is involved. The design ideas guide covers both directions in more detail.

If the arrangement changes down the road

If a family member later moves out, converting the unit to a rental does not require a new permit, only reviewing which financing product you used and switching your insurance policy from a family-occupied to a tenant-occupied designation.

Cost of accessibility features specifically

A curbless shower, wider doorways, and a main-floor bedroom and bathroom generally add a modest amount within the $350,000 to $550,000 range, not a separate cost category. The cost breakdown covers what else moves that number; accessibility features are a design choice made early, not an expensive retrofit added later.

Questions

Do we need a separate legal step to use the carriage home for family instead of renting it?
No. The permit process is identical. Only your own decision about how to use the finished space differs, and that can change over time without triggering a new permit.
Does the City require us to charge rent to a family member living there?
No. There is no requirement to charge rent for the unit to be legal.
Can we build for family now and rent it out later?
Yes, generally. Confirm the specific financing product you used, since some, like the CMHC-insured refinance, carry rental-related conditions worth reviewing before switching the unit’s use.
What accessibility features are worth planning for even if no one currently needs them?
A single-storey layout, wider doorways, and a curbless shower are the features that cost the least to include at the design stage and the most to add later.
Is a two-storey unit ever the right choice for an aging parent?
It can be, if a main-floor bedroom and bathroom are included so stairs are optional rather than required for daily living.
Does building for family instead of a tenant change the permit process?
No. The zoning and permit process, covered in the building permits guide, is identical either way; only your own use of the finished space differs.
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